Skip to content. The few times I have tried anal sex, i get a horrible case of the farts afterwards lasting hours. I do not have the ability to hold it and it's very embarassing. Is there anything i can do ahead of time or after to stop this??
Or at least it can if the ideal image you have of sex comes from the movies, romance novels, or even most sex education material. When we see sex depicted it's usually either highly glamorized and glossy or clinical but precise. Neither of these are real. Sex with someone else always has the potential to be a comedy of errors or at least a bumbling mess.
I had anal sex for the first time in college. Before then, my opinions on anal sex were ignorant. I thought that women who engaged in such a sex act probably had something wrong them — which I know now is completely NOT the case.