I cheated on my girlfriend. The backstory is that I got too close to a coworker and let my worst instincts get the best of me. We were together 10 or 12 times and I kept rationalizing it somehow in my head. There was also a time when my girlfriend made out with a guy in a bar. I just think it was part of my stupid rationalization.
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Did you find a pair of boxers that were definitely not yours between the mattress and the headboard? Did you receive an anonymous DM from a girl on Facebook telling you your boyfriend had been sleeping with her for months? Either way, cheating sucks.
Infidelity is difficult to handle. If you found out your girlfriend is cheating, you're likely finding it difficult to trust her again and move forward. In order to cope, you need to evaluate if the relationship is worth saving, communicate openly with your girlfriend about expectations going forward, and seek emotional support both from friends and professional therapists. Handling a cheating girlfriend can be challenging, but try to give yourself some time and space away from her so you can process your feelings. Categories: Cheating in Relationships.